tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5481895067160374496.post8420713643924385039..comments2009-03-03T02:01:35.292-05:00Kianahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07527646197854912136noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5481895067160374496.post-51464054371672918002009-03-03T02:01:00.000-05:002009-03-03T02:01:00.000-05:00I really appreciate your honesty. After seven and a half years with my guy, our relationship is definitely not roses but what we do have is worth fighting for. So I gets yous. ;P You're in my thoughts.Tenillehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04669551107559567397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5481895067160374496.post-44275556120457285792009-02-26T11:02:00.000-05:002009-02-26T11:02:00.000-05:00Your insight is incredible, and you've been through so much already! If you made it this far and are still standing, imagine what other accomplishments you're capable of together. It's a decision we all make...whether to accept that our relationships aren't perfect, and in the end it's that mentality and understanding that it's WORK and not all play that keeps couples together for the long haul. Thank you for your honesty! :)Jennhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05471369363749944370noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5481895067160374496.post-35620425413646900582009-02-26T10:47:00.000-05:002009-02-26T10:47:00.000-05:00The truth of it is, there is no perfect relationship. YOu have been through so much and that's what life is about. Having a partner that you want beside as you go through life's rollar coaster is what marriage is all about. We all have our moments.... :)Once A Bridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11710312646500735895noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5481895067160374496.post-45629617389305100302009-02-26T06:51:00.000-05:002009-02-26T06:51:00.000-05:00I love this post. Great to reality check ourselves every once in a while. I'm going to read the '7 scary truths' now!K @ Blog Goggleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10319071085465757982noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5481895067160374496.post-15345283277620202992009-02-25T10:56:00.000-05:002009-02-25T10:56:00.000-05:00Also, a great movie that I recently watched (well, &amp; read the book) Fireproof. I&#39;m sure that you and your FH wuld love it. So you should for sure rent it or buy it!Ehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17719134878007025257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5481895067160374496.post-72836058681039785782009-02-25T10:52:00.000-05:002009-02-25T10:52:00.000-05:00So I found your blog last night but didn't have a chance to read this post until now. And I love it. I know that may not be the "right" words but I recently went through a huge depression and had the doubts, and questioned everything and my wedding isn't for another 6 months. But my friends mom whom I am very close with gave me a book that isn't the kind of book that you give to a girl who is newly engaged and so, so excited about everything "24/7" it is the kind of book you give to someone when their about to leave, move, quit - give up. I'm not done with the book yet BUT when I am I want to give it to another bride to be that is having a tough time and isn't afraid to say it - and of course to someone who really wants to read it. The book is called "The Conscious Bride" by Sheryl Paul and i checked amazon you can get a used one for 1 penny and pay $3.99 shipping so you can get it for $4 which is a good deal, great deal. And it is a great book that talks about everything. What you may be feeling, family situations growing up, current family and living situations, etc.Ehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17719134878007025257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5481895067160374496.post-70642792005615164412009-02-24T13:43:00.000-05:002009-02-24T13:43:00.000-05:00That is definitely one way to help yourself feel better, get it out!!! That is what I have started to do with my blogging too. If there is a problem I usually clam up and don't want to talk to anyone about it but it is starting to get easier to put it out there in cyberland and get it out of my head. It makes letting go of the little things that can become big things easier. I really think though that it is great that you and your fiance are working through your rough patchs now. Lots of people go into marriages thinking everything is going to be like it was on the honeymoon only to find out its not, especially if they haven't lived together before. Figuring things out now will definitely help you solidify your marriage. The things you learn now will help you deal with all the bumps in the road later on...just wait til you add kids to the mix! If you ever need anything let me know, I'm not exactly an old pro but I'm certainly not a newlywed either. Good luck and relax!TwinsanityMomhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10378929512535446292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5481895067160374496.post-87955737759461631342009-02-24T12:28:00.000-05:002009-02-24T12:28:00.000-05:00Great post! Thanks for being so honest! It sounds like you guys have great communication and that can go a long way!<BR/><BR/>When I start to have "unhappy wedding" thoughts, I always seem to find someone who feels the same way! So, know that you are not alone!Heidihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08375787313828319942noreply@blogger.com